“My sessions with Nikki left me changed and connected to myself in a way that moves as I think about it again. I’ve had many bodywork sessions before but not like this. She held a really clear container, making sure that we both understood what would happen (based on what I asked for). Then together we listened to how my body was responding to the session and the touch. I had two profound breakthroughs in the first session that have changed how I’m living, my understanding of who I am and what i need to do to look after myself. This could have only been possible because Nikki has a divine gift and she empowered me to listen to my body and shared her knowledge on the body and energy. By following my body instead of our heads, we struck gold. I am so grateful, I am so thankful and I can’t recommend Nikki enough. ”
 
 
 
 
 
 

Somatic Sex Therapy

Through the modality of Somatic Sexology & Sexological bodywork, I support women, non-binary and trans people to process trauma held in their bodies, explore their sexuality, and experience more pleasure. Helping you to connect to your body in deeper way’s than ever before.

Working with me isn’t limited to sexual exploration but in service to coming home to yourself in wholeness, you body, and it’s incredible wisdom. Which is a game changer when it comes to your happiness and confidence.

Our sexuality is in intrinsic part of our being and is often exiled or pushed to one side, as many people hold so much shame around sex and sexuality. Ultimately how we relate to ourselves, our bodies and others impacts every area of our lives.

The therapeutic work I offer supports your growth in every other area of life, helping you live a life that lights you up and helps you move through more challenging times with ease.

I am a trauma informed practitioner and use a range of coaching tools that can support you depending on your needs and personal circumstances. From bodywork to talking therapy. Both online and in person.

You can read more specifics on what Somatic Sex Coaching, sometimes known as Somatic Sexology as well as Sexological Bodywork over on this page by clicking this link.

What can I help you with?

  • Helping you find full body pleasure

  • Communication with your partners

  • Help you become more orgasmic

  • Helping you with dissociation and numbness

  • Support with coming out and exploring your sexuality

  • Improving your relationship with your genitals

  • Communication with in relationships

  • Advocate for your desires and needs

  • Say no to people without feeling guilty or feeling you need to explain yourself

  • Helping you find your ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ without second guessing yourself and be able to trust your decisions and feelings

  • Feel more confident in communicating in your relationships. Romantic or otherwise.

  • Experience more pleasurable sex. Either by yourself or partnered.

  • Working through shame around masturbation

  • Feel more confident in your body, body image and your relationship with food and exercise

  • Liberate yourself from shame and anxiety you associate with your body and sexuality

  • Explore what turns you on, what are your needs and desires

  • Help you explore lack of desire

  • Rediscover yourself and your sexuality after the end of a relationship or after having children.

  • Reduce pain from adhesions and redness from scars such as gender reasignment, cosmetic procedures, Episiotomy, C Section or other surgeries.

During our time working together, we create a partnership based on non judgment, radical acceptance and compassion.

I am based on the Kent, East Sussex border and offer 1-2-1 coaching primarily on Zoom and also in person, from my private treatment room.

I can support you using a wide variety of tools, from talking sessions to Sexological Bodywork. You can find out more about this by following this link.

How I work & how we work together

The Somatic Sex Coaching sessions are primarily held via Zoom which works wonderfully and means your not limited by geographical circumstance. I also offer some sessions in person at my private treatment room.

Trust is one of my number one values in life, freedom is the other. I truly appreciate my clients that trust me to help them find the freedom to be entirely themselves.

It really is an absolute privilege and total joy to help my clients with such sacred aspects of themselves.

All the work we would do together is confidential. So you can be confident I am able to support you through the most challenging or sensitive periods of your life as well as the joy and pleasure of course!

If you’d like to chat more about how I can help you, click the button below and we can arrange a time to talk via phone or video call.