Welcome!
I’m Nicky (they/she), a Somatic Sexologist and Integrative Counsellor offering trauma-informed therapy, including Somatic Sex Therapy and support around sexual trauma, sexuality, intimacy and chemsex. My therapeutic approach is integrative, with Person-Centred therapy at its foundation.
My work is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity) affirming and rooted in anti-oppressive, evidence-informed practice, somatic awareness, and both professional and lived understanding of identity, trauma, sexuality, grief and change.
I primarily work with sexual trauma survivors, LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent clients, and people exploring sexuality, gender, relational diversity, chemsex addiction, grief, shame and connection with their bodies.
My work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about supporting you to understand yourself more deeply, process and integrate challenging life experiences, reconnect with yourself and your body, and develop the self-trust to live more authentically.
Ways to work with me
1:1 Counselling
Online integrative counselling with a Person-Centred foundation, supporting you to explore identity, sexuality, trauma, relationships, grief, shame and change. Explore Counselling →
Somatic Sex Therapy
Online and in-person body-aware therapy exploring sexuality, sexual trauma, intimacy, pleasure, boundaries and your relationship with your body.
Explore Somatic Sex Therapy →
Groups & Workshops
I also offer therapeutic groups, courses and workshops exploring sexuality, embodiment, identity, pleasure, shame and connection. New groups will be added as they become available. Join my mailing list at the bottom of the page for upcoming events and workshops.
My Manifesto
I dream of a world where we are free.
A world where conditioning around sexuality, gender, relationships, and how we “should” live no longer disconnects us from ourselves.
A world where diversity, equity, authenticity, and radical acceptance are woven into everyday life. Where there is less pressure to shrink, conform, perform, or abandon ourselves just to belong.
A world where people can feel more at home in their bodies, relationships, identities, and desires.
And yes, I know that sounds utopian.
I also believe change happens one human at a time.
My work is about creating space for people to explore themselves more honestly, work through trauma and shame, and reconnect with who they are beneath survival, conditioning, and fear.
This process can be tender. Messy. Courageous. Liberating.
And it doesn’t need to be rushed.
I hold both the practical and the sacred.
I’m spiritual, but I don’t bypass. We honour what happened, we honour what’s true now, and we make space for what might come next.
Part of why this work matters so deeply to me is that I know what it’s like to feel disconnected from yourself. To feel shame. To suppress parts of who you are. To feel lost inside your own life.
And I also know what it can feel like to slowly return to yourself, with more honesty, self-trust, joy, playfulness, confidence, and freedom.
Big Love
Nicky
“Nicky has a calming energy that instantly puts you at ease. Through her coaching, you find yourself able to open up about whats holding you back from who you really are. Being aligned to you wants, needs and desires in an environment that fosters vulnerability and courage.
By working with Nicky. you’ll get a strong sense of empathy, compassion and kindness that allows you to feel held. listened to and safe to explore anything that may come up for as a result of seeking the real, authentic, liberated you.”
